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Post by palsera27 » Thu Dec 07, 2017 12:42 am

For over a year I have been sexually attracted to a presumably straight woman. I’m 34 she’s 61. I want be physically involved with her. I fantasize about her in my mind.


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Post by Axle » Thu Dec 07, 2017 12:38 pm

@palsera27 Per the other thread you created, what makes you believe she is presumably straight? Or not straight? Have you broke the ice with her?

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Post by palsera27 » Thu Dec 07, 2017 11:52 pm

Axle wrote:[mention]palsera27[/mention] Per the other thread you created, what makes you believe she is presumably straight? Or not straight? Have you broke the ice with her?
Because her Fb page says interested in men


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Post by Axle » Fri Dec 08, 2017 12:58 pm

@palsera27 Ok, but not everyone is out of the closet, you know what I mean? Are you friends with her?

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Post by palsera27 » Fri Dec 08, 2017 1:13 pm

Axle wrote:[mention]palsera27[/mention] Ok, but not everyone is out of the closet, you know what I mean? Are you friends with her?
Working on it. She’s an acquaintance. I had an opportunity to say hi to her last week but didn’t


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Post by Axle » Fri Dec 08, 2017 1:44 pm

@palsera27 So I guess it is safe to assume that you don't know her very well otherwise? If that is the case I see two possibilities, either she is gay or she isn't. Go ahead and say hi, just talk to her. Either you end up with a straight friend or your might be on to something. Either way, life is too short to have regrets. Just don't go overkill and go 0-100 in 2 seconds. You might be able to find out whether she is gay or not. (I'm saying gay instead of lesbian because I'm 100% sure if it is appropriate to use lesbian...even thought they essentially mean the same thing).

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Post by palsera27 » Mon Jan 22, 2018 2:12 pm

I’m going to be around her in few weeks. Ok to ask to get a cup of coffee


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Post by Axle » Mon Jan 22, 2018 2:15 pm

Sure, I don't see why not. See where it goes, but don't assume she is or isn't gay. I wouldn't suggest revealing anything like that about yourself at this point.

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